Risks are inherently associated with sex of any kind so the information included now is for the purpose of allowing informed decisions to some degree. Back to Sexual health. Just wait for a bit until she tells you to continue. Take in slowly and gently. Penetration will be painful if the vagina is not lubricated. Pain is the thing the main thing that causes people to dislike anal sex. Every man should try it a few times, get over the issues and determine what works best.
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Is sex painful the first time?
Once you think you have it, try it with something long and a bit thicker than a pencil…. Silicone or hybrid is best imo. Knowing the biology might not tell you exactly what it will feel like but it can give you a sense of what it MIGHT feel like. Think sound isolation in your doors and windows, think sending the kids spend time with Grandma, tell the next door neighbours you're watching a movietron of horror releases A lot of people begin their exploration into anal sex by themselves.