There often a tittie for tat outrage that come from man when feminist issue are discussed like "man are discriminated against too" "girl are mean too. There's a certain undercurrent of 'body positivity' circling the US, but there is still a culture of silence. Plus, 'pussy' is a euphemism which mirrors the visually euphemistic images that we choose. Why was everyone talking about emotional labour in ? Why did you set this thing up?
Hey, gender is not an aesthetic category.
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Some are uncomfortable with words that are associated, like 'discharge' or 'moist'. Gender is personal, gender is on a spectrum and doesn't always align with biological sex. Something went wrong, please try again. Yes, absolutely, there is a stigma. Ready To Do More? The tattooist who becomes Father Christmas. Whichever terminology works for you, use it.